Have you ever noticed that life mostly happens in two spots? You’re either at home (the First Place) or grinding away at work or school (the Second Place).
But there’s a missing piece to the puzzle. Author Ray Oldenburg calls it the “Third Place.” It’s that neutral ground where you can relax, chat, and feel like you truly belong.
What is a Third Place?
Think of a Third Place as the Alexandria community’s living room. It’s not your house, and it’s definitely not your office or your classroom.
It’s a spot where you aren't a "boss" or a "parent"—you’re just you. In Alexandria, the YMCA is that anchor where neighbors become friends over a game of pickleball or in a group exercise class.
Why Do You Need a Third Place?
Social isolation is a real thing, especially during a long Alexandria winter. Feeling lonely can actually impact your physical health as much as a cold.
Third spaces offer "low-stakes" social wins. (Onitskansky, 2021) Whether it’s a quick "hello" at the front desk or a cup of coffee after a class, these moments boost your mood and self-esteem.
Why the Alexandria Area YMCA is a great Third Place
While you might grab a latte downtown or walk the Central Lakes Trail in July, the Y offers a year-round hub for every stage of life:
- For the Busy 25–40 Crowd: Hit the weights, catch up with friends, and know your kids are safe in Child Watch all in one stop.
- For Our Active Older Adults: From FOREVERWELL activities to group classes like Stay Fit, the Y helps local seniors stay mobile. It provides the routine that often disappears after retirement.
- Accessible to Everyone: A true third place must be open to all. The Y offers financial assistance so that cost never stands in the way of community.
Make the Alexandria YMCA Your Third Place
We’re more than just another gym in Douglas County. We’re your community hub, your stress-reliever, and your home away from home. Come find your people and your purpose right here in Alex!
We have membership options designed for every neighbor.
Sources
Oldenburg, R. (1991). The great good place: Cafes, coffee shops, bookstores, bars, hair salons, and other hangouts at the heart of the community. Paragon House.
Onitskansky, E. (2021, May 18). Longing for belonging. MFA Products of Design. https://productsofdesign.sva.edu/projects/longing-for-belonging